Yes, you read that right, "Why can’t I forget her". Let’s call her "The Pahadi Girl (THP)". Our relationship was not a very long one (only lasted for 3 months), but still we both were very much attached.
She was one of the early friends that I got on campus, she was a girl full of joy and laughter. When thinking down the lane, I have a regret about whether I killed all of her joy or not. Sometimes I think deeply that the people you value the most are the people who easily go away from your life.
This relationship was all about learnings that is still deeply engraved into my heart. She always taught me that "LOVE is NOT enough for a relationship to sustain". She taught me the real meaning of PATIENCE. She taught me what flaws I had.
"The Pahadi Girl", if you are reading this, thank you for everything. Sometimes I wish to forget everything, each and every memory related to her. I am so dumb that I thought I could forget her during my semester break.
Sometimes those memories would rush into my brain and make me cry. Sometimes I would think why should I forget all the memories, because there were a lot of good memories too. If I try to forget everything, then there is no point of the good things that happened along the way.
Recently we broke completely apart and we never talked after 16th of June 2026. The last question I asked her was "Aap pahunch gaye", for that her answer was "Ha mai toh saturday pahunch gayi", that’s all the convo was dead right there, and I miss her smiling face till now.
Life should move on and I think the right thing I can do is to try to forget her……………………
GoodBye "The Pahadi Girl"